How do you deal with the first few months after a break-up?

I really, really liked my ex-boyfriend more than I can explain but I don't think he is right for me long-term. He was my best friend and he still wants to go on hols with me in the near future. I am struggling to deal with this situation.How do you deal with the first few months after a break-up?
Make a clean break. It's easier. Then just make lots of plans and stay as busy as possible.How do you deal with the first few months after a break-up?
I just got out of 2 year relationship and we still talk about everyday, I like havingg her in my life but not in that way anymore. You can't say he is bad for you then go on holidays with him, you have got to draw the line somewhere and thats it. That might really send crossed signals. You can't be long term but who decides how short is short term?
Well to get over the guy I was in love with, I hang out with my closest friends. We party in her basement. We dance like crazy to songs and eat all the junk in the world. I ignore all the flirty guys who just found out I was single. Basically don't focus on the guy or any other guys, but have fun for a while with your friends!
i think for me i wont sulk in the corner of my room.. i'll go out and face the world again.. and continue with my life.. i mean .. i know u love him but it's much better to accept the fact that u're already done with each other.. but after that u can be friends if u can manage to face him
we'll deal with it together, i know how you feel, you're lucky because he's still your friend. my ex is scared to talk to me but he just stares at me in a curious sort of way and i still love him, i'm going to tell him tonight :]
be firm enough to get your point across, forget the holidays, nothing worse than an awkward trip with an ex. You can still hang out now then if you feel like it, once the situation is clear in his mind(s).
Do what I did: get a dog. Yeah I know, it doesn't help much but it does help a little.
You have already decided that he isn't the right person for you. Then why hang on? The time is the best healer.
start working on you.