How should I deal with breaking up with girlfriend with baby due in 2 months?

I really dont know what to do. I want to fight it but it seems its not going to work out. She still wants me to be in the baby's life which I will be there for the baby. Should I just wait till we can work out later on or just keep fighting to work things out now.How should I deal with breaking up with girlfriend with baby due in 2 months?
When women are pregnant they aren't very rational. Give her space for now. After the baby is born, and all those pregnancy hormones are out of her body, she may realize just how much she misses you.





So, for now, just back off but let her know you're there. Make sure you're at the hospital for the baby's birth. And be there to help as much as possible afterwards.





Six months to a year from now, you'll know absolutely whether it's over, or it was just a very bad hormone thing.How should I deal with breaking up with girlfriend with baby due in 2 months?
If you can't get harmony in your lives, don't subject the baby to it. The baby deserves a happy home, and if that means two homes (one for mom and one for dad) it's better than teaching him/her that a normal life is full of anger and hostility. If it works out later, all the better. Good luck and congratulations!!
Im 6 months pregnant. My now husband had to deal with my mood swings all these months. I tried to stay normal, despite of all the things that have happened to us: like his brother staying in our house, having to do chores despite of my situation...


If you really want to do the right thing for you and your baby and you love her deeply, I think you should be more patient. Talk to her, tell her you understand her mood swings, but you also have feelings. Try not to be too harsh on her, when we are pregnant, we are waaaay too sensitive. She will understand... and you guys will work out. Merry Christmas!
You should go ahead and end it. its better to raise the child as civil associates or as friends then as a bitter couple soon to be ex couple. I learned this from my own personal experience.
Your Baby? You should take out a large life insurance policy and after the baby that you will abandon is born you can off yourself so he/she will not have to grow up in poverty.





Try being a man.Take care of your kid.In 18 years you be selfish and do what you want. And get yourself fixed people like you shouldn't reproduce.
love is not a free thing...your not either a lover or a fighter....your a fighting lover....i say keep strong...if you have the will to keep hold of this relationship, then keep fighting. you may not realize it, but maybe your subconsience is the source of your want to leave...maybe your just scared. but if you dont fight for love...you will never get it...
if ure still gonna help take care of the baby then.........


i dont think so
If this is true arent you lucky.You get to run off leaving her with baby and problems.Look in mirror:there is a really big man.
yea man stick it out, my wife is 8 months prego and she is absolutely crazy just ignore her and say yes dear. it works.
just tell her that her hormones are killing the relationship...
Dont leave her she really needs you right now so wait and see if you can work it with the baby
you really should be there for her...it's a stressful time for you both! maybe take a couple days away for yourself, explain to her that you need a break, but then come back and handle the situation like a MAN. you have a responsibility...maybe not to her but to the child. Putting her under any sort of stress right now isn't good for the baby. So do what you need to do to destress yourself, reflect on the entire situation, and decide what's best for you and your girlfriend and your baby. After its born, then reevaluate your relationship and the reality of it working out or not. you never know unless you try!
she has alot in her hands right now a human is growing in her stomach wouldnt you be piss at someone just be there for her and help her as much as you can give her space it might go away after the baby is born****
U creep! now you r breakin' up w/her! you should have suffer labor pains like she'll have too. why did you break up with her, was it convenient?
Just take the easy way out. Why not, it's the easy way! Move on to the next girl, knock her up too, and then you can leave her as well. Staying together for the baby isn't something that you should do, but people who have answered this question are right. Women are nuts during a pregnancy, but you have already committed to her to be around for that. You owe her at least that much. Wait around for a couple months and see how things go. You can't just run out on her now.
follow ur heart %26amp; instincts


if you feel it isnt going to work out, dont stay in the relationship for the baby's sake ..


you can still be a good father without being in the relationship with the mother.





if you want to make it work, then try again .. but if that fails.. theres your answer





goodluck
Hormones are probably the reason she seems absolutely impossible. I think it is important that you are there for her right now. I would not break up with her til after the baby is born. Most important right now should be the safe, delivery of your healthy child.


Good Luck
Have either one of you tried counseling?


How old are the two of you?


And although she is due in two months did you really think this through?





I wish you the best of luck as well as for the baby who will be hurt in the long run if the two of choose to fight his/her entire life.





Remember you and the mother are the force behind the new life that the two of you are bringing into the world.
Just go with the flow, she will probably come around after the birth of the baby. Just be available for emotional support and when the baby is delivered. the two of you have a life long commitment like it or not. There is no way you will not be a part of her life for at least the rest of this child's life. Good luck and God bless****
if its because of her actions, realize its the hormones talking, she will be back to her normal self after the baby is born. but keep your promise and be there for your child
Hey man...I know your girl must be absolutely crazy right now...but cut her some slack. Hold out until the baby comes around, she is going to change a lot once she gets that little thing in her hands. You owe it to your baby to be there when its born! Trust me things are freakin nuts right now but she will be a better person once this thing is out of her body!