How do you deal with a break up with a guy. B/c of his parents. For counseling b/c of the way he treated you?

Ok...my bf and I just broke up.we fought and he decided that he needed the space. He was abusive and we needed the space for him to fix that. Well long story short. Since my mom called his mom. We arent allowed to talk or see each other. and we probably wont until the summer. I have a ring from him. we dated for 3 years. and saw each other everyday. and now I cant see or talk to him at all. and more than likely this will last until summer if not until august when we go to college. I want to be with him so bad and I think he wants the same. but now we have to wait. how do i deal with this. what can I do to help it be over sooner or at least find out if i need to move on or wait.How do you deal with a break up with a guy. B/c of his parents. For counseling b/c of the way he treated you?
My sister had a boyfriend like this that she dated for a long time and always thought he would change. He would be abusive and then say he didn't mean to or it was all a mistake. He would beg to come back and she kept taking him back. She finally dumped him and he married someone else. Now that marriage is ending because he abused her. Now he has 2 kids from that marriage are involved and had to grow up in a abusive home. At your age you might not see as clearly as your parents do. Just take a break from him for awhile. The separation might help get rid of some the emotions you are feeling and then deal more logically. I know it is hard to lose someone, but you are safer without him at this point in your life. If it is meant to be, then he will get the help he needs and you will find each other again. If it is not meant to be then you will find someone else and time will make the pain easier to deal with.How do you deal with a break up with a guy. B/c of his parents. For counseling b/c of the way he treated you?
Well, if he's abusive and fought and stuff.... Then don't even think about dating him again! You don't need that kind of treatment.
give it the time, maybe you will meet someone that isnt ABUSIVE...
Either he was abusive or he wasnt.Ask your mom if he was, she knows whether he was or not.Now once you get a job and moveout on your own and pay your own way, you can see ANYONE you wish,until THEN your parents are responsible for you.This is why I dont believe in allowing teens to date, they arent mature enough to see reality as it is, they look through emotion and the eyes of fantasy ,whereas your mom looks at reality and the future pertaining to the present reality.You just need to move on, and work on graduating and going to college so you can get a job that will support you if you want total freedom.
First off if he was abusive then he needed to go.I've been abused by one of my ex's I told a couple of people ,but some how they would believe him over me. My advice would be to move on and just treasure some of the memories. You can still be friends.


Good luck
if your a christian then i think that you should think';would god want me to date a abusive guy that will hurt me emothionally and physicaly of you date him are you going towards god or away )
Girl your parents did you a favor. You don't know what's good for you obviously! He had to get help for being abusive. Is that what kind of life you want? Thank your mom and thank is and move on. It's sad to know that you think you deserve an abusive man.
Aaahhh, self destructive overly dramatic teenage love. It seems like the end of the world. It's not. Date around. Maybe you'll find a functional relationship that will make you happy. If not, just know that in the grand scheme of your life, 6 months or so, not a long time. When you say abusive, is it actual abuse, or is it normal teenage jealousy. Teenage guys tend to get a little possessive, especially if you were their first. People are so quick to call everything abuse now, and they forget that teenagers function on completely different emotional levels. Everything becomes overdramatized and turns into something it's not.