Ps. I asked this before i just need some more answers to compare and plus she texted me last night telling me that she doesn't wanna talk anymore until sunday when we hang out... :'( I'm extremely sad, idk what to do! Help me?
Thank you so much PS. we are both 17 i'm a junior and she's a seniorHow to deal with a break up! I need help, i seriously do!?
Jesus. Grow a pair.How to deal with a break up! I need help, i seriously do!?
I am so not in the mood for reading a novel
do things that you like doing normally
i aint bother to read this whole thing
sorry
I think shes just ******* with your heart
Girls are sluts like that.
Plus if shes a senior, she thinks she probebly deserves someone better then that.
next time she texts you, tell her ur over it.
make HER cry over you, %26amp; dont let her **** with your emotions.
Even tho you love her, you need time away from her for it to heal.
%26amp; her contacting you over %26amp; OVER %26amp; being ';friends with benefits';
wont help with your situation at all.
I know i sound harsh, but shes fooling around with your heart.
It seems like the both of you have serious communication difficulties. Try talking to her one last time. Explain to her that you haven't done the things that she thinks that you did, and if you can offer people to vouch for you who were there at the time those things were supposed to have happened, tell her to contact them. If she doesn't believe you then thats it. She may not even believe that any of those things are true, she just might be looking for an excuse to move on. Sorry, Good luck
why don't you try totally ignoring her for a while i know it sounds hard but try... no texts no meeting up no nothing and see what happens.. she'll either miss the attention and you and wanna get back or she wont respond..
if she wants to get back then great for you and if she jus doesnt respond then this girl is not worth it and u should move on.. i know its hard but u sound like a nice sensitive guy and i bet any girl would be lucky on ur arm :) chin up hunni xx things always feel so bad when ur a teen in love.. trust me i had my heart broken u do move on sooner than u think !! xxxx
take care xx
maybe she's intentionally hurting you.
i wouldnt take her bs. i know its hard to let something you love go, but as the saying goes
';if it comes back its yours.'; but how much could she really care for you if she's constantly hurting you?
besides. youre only 17, in a year you'll be in college and you definitely WONT want a gf. and maybe shes thinking about that as well.
let her go and dont give her so much attention. she'll start to wonder why you dont anymore.
nd if she tells you its ';your last chance'; and youve been loving her everyday and she doesnt see that or chooses not to then how much could she possibly value your relationship?
dont continue hurting yourself. time heals all wounds.
any good relationship is built on trust. maybe you should speak to this friend of hers and ask her why she is telling her these lies, and get down to the bottom of this situation. then, you should talk to your ex once more, and if she still will not believe you, then it would be best if you let her go. sometimes, when we try to hold on to something, it ends up trying to leave faster, rather than if we had just set it free. understand what i'm saying? ( ; i hope everything turns out for the best.
End it cold turkey!! its the only way to fully get over her... she is using you so she doesn't feel lonely. Get yourself a new girl. '; The only way to get over one love is to find another.'; You also seem like a sweet guy... any girl would be lucky.
Take control of the relationship your the man. Just tell her that you are tired of telling her that nothing happened and that it appears that no amount of confessing is ever going to change her mind. So you can tell her that you want to break up with her for not trusting you. I mean if you have necer done anything wrong. How can she hold this one thing over your head. I feel like she is trying to play games with you and wouldnt be surprised if she is cheating on you.
duuuuuuude.. rough. i feel you though. if you love her its hard to let her go even though thats probably the best thing to do. it sounds to me like shes being insecure about the whole situation and it sounds like shes trying to make you jealous and prove something to her. on sunday tell her how you feel (but leave out the negative things) and you could get her something or do somehting special and maybe shell believe everything.
when you meet on sunday take flowers, chocolates, a love note anything that's romantic. If you truly didn't kiss this other girl then tell ur gf to call her and ask her about it, b/c u have nothing to hide. Just keep showing her each day that u love her and want to be with her.
Sorry, dude. Sounds to me like she's using the thing with the friend's sister as an excuse so that she doesn't have to be the heartless meanie who dumped you because she wanted to date the guy at the gym. If I were you, I'd give myself some time and space to recover, and then start looking for someone whose first instinct would be to take my word over someone else's.
MOVE ON! she doesn't deserve you! If you really did cry infront of her that's going to make her think she can make you do whatever she says. And well she's probably telling you she's going to hang out with another guy because she knows your going to get jealous and she doesn't care. She just wants you to beg her. Just Move on!! imagine how it would be if ya'll were to get married??!!
aigh dude. girls dont wanna see a dude be weak or sad. even if its real... its ok to have those emotions but dont let her see them. act like you dont care. she knows she got you wrapped around her finger. you gotta take the power back and start playing it cool. dont let her see u sad or upset nemore.wen u see her dont get alll excited and sometime if she asks u to make plans,,, dont go.. act like ur busy and out enjoying life. which u shuld be. enjoy football and dont worry about her as much as possible. if she feels like u r having a great time and moving on, she will come bak. ignore her even. for real tho... be a tough guy....
If she will actually believe her friend over her boyfriend for over a year she has MAJOR trust issues! I'm sorry if it sounds like I'm insulting her, but I honestly want to tell you if she doesn't trust you more than she trusts her friend then I would let her go. You don't have to do this, but if her friend tells her more stuff in the future (If you two got back together) would she believe YOU or her friend? Also, does her ';friend'; have any problems with you two being together? Don't let her **** with your god damn emotions dude! Next time you talk to her you should tell her you're OVER her. Let her cry over you this time man. She's a senior and is being a total slut about this entire thing. If she doesn't believe you after you cried over her so many times the ***** aint worth it. Dump her on the sidewalk. See how she feels about it the next day.
You're gonna have to let her go.
I think shes just not interested in you anymore and is moving on.. I'm sorry but she might want someone more her age or something. idkk, But all i can say is move on, shes not interested anymore and your wasting your time crying over her.
honestly man, just leave her alone. if she doesnt believe you, especially when you put your manhood on the line with crying in front of her (which i have only done in the most desperate of situations) she is obviously not worth it. its not easy to hear, but i went through the same thing, and after a few weeks, it still hurt, but not bad. so just try to forget about her. sry if its not what you wanted to here.
Definitely you girlfriend doesn't trust you. You know, the trust is something that it must be present at the very beginning and during the relationship. Other else, you risk to have such surprises like the one with your girlfriend. I think that you 2 are undecided. Sometimes, you should think with the brain not with your heart, and in this case, you should weigh all the good things and all the bad things that you've been through, and finally, put yourself the question: is she worthy? If I'm going to continue my relationship with this girl, the relation will be destructive for me or not? Think about it...
well im not saying completely put her out of your life. but it honestly sounds like shes just trying to make you upset to see if you truly love her. dont cry infront of her anymore . when you go out on sunday just be real chill and act like your not worried about dating her anymore . start texting some girls (as friends ) but that will make her realize that its her lost not yours . and she will MOST LIKELY wanna take you back .
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